This quote does not mean that you take no effort if everything is falling apart. You know I don’t think it is a good idea to take any quote or any idea for that matter on face value and taking it at face value or dogmatically, everything can have some good meaning no matter how little.
To sum up it means allow your partner to be free, trust him/her, love him/her unconditionally (that way free), don’t become so possessive that it becomes a liability. You know after a point most people become over-expecting, some even start doubting slightly and want more attention just because they think that he/she is giving more attention to other people and things and that is one reason that can lead to a downslide in relationships. A relationship can only bloom when there is mutual trust and respect for each others individuality. If there is mutual trust then a person would never worry about the things I mentioned in the previous sentence and would avoid insecurity. It has nothing to in my humble opinion with leaving a partner “free” in other meanings.
My question about this quote is really “how much “freedom” does one need before s/he comes to her/his sense just to realize that the other person has already moved on.” They move on not because they don’t love the other person but because time and the discovery of oneself happened to move a little quicker. If you decide to try again later, how will this “seperation” be added into the equation…positive or negative…I guess it really depends on the couple…still confused
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