Intezar jo meetha bhi hain aur dard bhi deta hain

Aaj ka ehsaas sirf itna ki intezar karna kabhi achha hain aur kabhi dukh dai bhi
Unka intezar hain is umeed se kabhi to mud kar dekhenge ki hum bhi rahon par palke bichaye baithe hain
Par ehsaas yeh bhi hain ki aakhir yeh intezaar kab khatm hoga aur humein unka deedar hoga
Woh ehsaas jo sirf gale lag kar hi mil paye, woh pal kab aayge

Insaan to phir wahin hain, jahan kehta hain dil mein chah ho to raaste khud-b-khud aa jate hain
Phir yeh umeed kyun, ki jo chahe woh humein zaroor mile

Mohabbat insaan ko kitna badal deti hain, use dena bhi sikhati hain aur sehna bhi
Kabhi kisi ki ulfat ko, to kabhi kisi ki intezar karwati hain
Kabhi yeh sochne par mahboor kar deti hain, ki woh akela nahin
Aur kabhi aise ki shayad haan woh ab bhi tanha hain

Suchi chahat khud ba khud raaste badal deti hain, soch badal deti hain
Chehre par ajab si chamak bhi le aati hain aur kisi ke intezar ki jhalak bhi
Ankhen aansun to chalkati hain, par kabhi milne ke to kabhi judaai ke
Aaj bhi unhe maloom hain ki intezar hain
Par dil ko yeh maloom nahin ki intezar kab khatm hoga

Har bar ka ehsaas ki woh hain yahin kahin hain
Phir bhi Dil kyun nahin maanta aur ro deta hain unki judai mein
Gar khuda se jo saamna ho, to puchungi zaroor ki dil ka dastoor badal kyun nahin dete
Use bhi to batado, ki jo behta hain zaruri nahin aansun hi ho,
Pyar ka dariya bhi ho sakta hain, unhe bhi to pata chale ki hum bhi bekraar hain unhe dekhne ko

Dil ki zubaan jo ankhon se bayan ho jaye
To mohabaat ki zubaan ki kya zarurat hain
Unhe jo ehsaas karane ki koshish hain
Dil hi puri karde ankhon se, apni zubaan kis kaam ki.
Dil se pyar hain, Rooh intezar mein, aapke liye............................

Different Outlook, so true

We think if we love someone, we should just set them free and give them their own space

Well, it's true in its own sense, however there is something that we really have to think about.

When two people decide to become one by commiting to each other, personal space is required but at the same time , the other person should have a feeling that its not only u or me. After teh commitment, it becomes "US"

So whatever two does, it implicates US and not an individual aspect.

Do you really think that if you love someone and that someone, for some reason, feels detached or slipping out of the relationship, you should just set them free and let them be and actually slip out? No. I don’t think so. What if that someone feel that this person just doesn’t care whether I’m there or not… I think one should make an effort, never let them go, hold them, trust them, love them, and cherish them. You can’t just ‘let it be’ if you see the love fading out, provided you really are in love… you must work on it!

There are so many times in any relationship when you feel everything is just falling apart… imagine if no one makes an effort at that point and just keep singing this stupid quote in their minds, it will actually fall apart. I mean how would the person know what he/she means?
i don’t say that if you love someone, keep them in a cage…you can’t. But don’t just take it for granted that they will come back to you in any case…in teh times of adversity, you need to tell them that they are needed back…. only if you LOVE someone!

Hold them in such a way that they should feel preoccupied and at the same time Secure and contended. That's all about the commitment and True Love Passion.

Cheers!!!!!!

Main aur Ek Tanhai

I am feeling isolated. I want to be isolated from other.

I am not in mood to talk to anyone, even I don’t want see anyone.

I just want to sit in my dark room and be gloomy.

I want to give deep thought about the prank life is playing with me.

I simply unable to think anything. I am trying to dissect the reason of sadness.

I just want to be myself. I wonder about the way of life.

I was at height of happiness in the morning and now I am sitting in the valley of the sorrow.

What bothers me? I am asking to myself and I want answer.

Where the things go wrong? I seem to have everything and, then nothing appeals me.

I cannot concentrate on my work, neither books give me any relief.

I don’t want anyone near me. I am just looking up to find the answer.

I know this phase soon will pass, but it will come again someday.

In my little life I have been fighting with my inner self fiercely.

In every battle I felt doomed but the experience has taught me that everything passes on.

Time is the best medicine for everything.

I can handle the pressure from outside, when the force is known and can be seen.

But many a times it is hard to find the point of the pain.

After riding in the roller coaster I understand one thing. It is in the mind.

Whether you are in the woods or in the crowds.

Even being in the woods you cannot be alone, your memories, your feelings chase you, you are not alone, you long for something, someone, you are struck somewhere in the crowd in spite of being in the woods.
But if you are silent in mind, peaceful then you between the crowds and still you are alone, nothing can affect you.

So if you are happy it is because of you and if you are sad then also because of you only, nobody is against or in favor of you.

It is always state of mind; you are in hell or heaven as decided by you.

Ehsaas jo ajab hain dar p dar

I am not worried about anything. I am not worried about anyone. I am not responsible for anything. I am not responsible to anyone. I am concerned with myself. I am free to choose my destiny. I am free to use my discretion. I am not doing anything against my will. I am careful about myself. I am caring myself. I am alone. I was alone. I will be alone. Nothing, no one comes together goes together.

Tum Hamare Nahi To Kya Gham Hai

Hum Tumhare To Hai Yeh Kya Kam Hai

Tum Hamare Nahi To Kya Gham Hai

Hum Tumhare To Hai Yeh Kya Kam Hai
Muskura Do Zara Khuda Ke Liye

Sham-e-mhafil Mein Roshni Kam Haai

Tum Hamare Nahi To Kya Gham Hai

Hum Tumhare To Hai Yeh Kya Kam Hai
Ban Gaya Hai Yeh Zindagi Aab To

Tuz Se Badkar Hume Tera Gam Hai

Tum Hamare Nahi To Kya Gham Hai

Hum Tumhare To Hai Yeh Kya Kam Hai

I am feeling isolated. I want to be isolated from other. I am not in mood to talk to anyone, even I don’t want see anyone. I just want to sit in my dark room and be gloomy. I want to give deep thought about the prank life is playing with me. I simply unable to think anything. I am trying to dissect the reason of sadness. I just want to be myself. I wonder about the way of life. I was at height of happiness in the morning and now I am sitting in the valley of the sorrow. What bothers me? I am asking to myself and I want answer. Where the things go wrong? I seem to have everything and, then nothing appeals me. I cannot concentrate on my work, neither books give me any relief. I don’t want anyone near me. I am just looking up to find the answer. I know this phase soon will pass, but it will come again someday. In my little life I have been fighting with my inner self fiercely. In every battle I felt doomed but the experience has taught me that everything passes on. Time is the best medicine for everything. I can handle the pressure from outside, when the force is known and can be seen. But many a times it is hard to find the point of the pain.After riding in the roller coaster I understand one thing. It is in the mind. Whether you are in the woods or in the crowds. Even being in the woods you cannot be alone, your memories, your feelings chase you, you are not alone, you long for something, someone, you are struck somewhere in the crowd in spite of being in the woods.But if you are silent in mind, peaceful then you between the crowds and still you are alone, nothing can affect you.So if you are happy it is because of you and if you are sad then also because of you only, nobody is against or in favor of you. It is always state of mind; you are in hell or heaven as decided by you.

Tere baare mein jab socha nahin thaa,

main tanha thaa magar itna nahin thaa

Teri tasveer se karta thaa baatein,

mere kamre mein aayina nahin thaa.

Samandar ne mujhe pyaasa hi rakha,

main jab sahera mein thaa pyaasa nahin thaa.

Manaane ruthne ke khel mein hum,

bichhad jaayenge ye socha nahin thaa.

Suna hai band kar li aankhein usne,

kai raaton se wo soya nahin thaa

Bus Aisa hain yeh Ehsaas jo insaan ke zehen se chahe nahin jata

aur reh jate kuch unkahe unsune sawaal...............................

Kya Gazab hain Jagjit Ji Aapka

1.Hothhon se chhu lo tum meraa geet amar kar do,ban jaao meet mere, meri preet amar kar do.
[touch my song with your lips, make it immortal,be my beloved, make my love immortal]

2.Na umr kee seemaa ho, naa janmon kaa ho bandhanjab pyaar kare koi to dekhe kewal maan,nayee reet chalaakar tum ye reet amar kar do
[No restriction of age, not the bond of lives,when someone love should see only the soul,by carving new trend, make the trend immortal]

3.Aakaash kaa sunapan mere tanaha man me,paayal zanakaatee tum aa jaao jeewan mesaanse dekar apani sangeet amar kar do.sangeet amar kar do mera geet amar kar do.
[Loneliness of the sky is in my lone heart,with rattleing paayal enter into my life,by giving own breaths make the music immortalmake the music immortal, make my song immortal]

4.Jag ne chhinaa muz se, muze jo bhee lagaa pyaaraasab jeetaa kiye muz se, main har pal hee haaraatum haar ke dil apanaa, meree jeet amar kar do
[World snatched from me, whatever was beloved to me,all won from me, I lost at every moment,by losing your heart you make my victory immortal]

Can never have enough of this ghazal. I have been listeing it for years and listened it hundreds of time (yes! sometime in winamp this track is repeated for several times, just now I am listening it 5th time in row). Indivar has really put his heart in the lyric. You just feel that this is something you want to say some one very special and it cannot be put in better ways. This song displays immense quality of love and effection. To not moved by this ghazal you need a heart of stone.
This is the first hit ghazal of Jagjit Singh sung in Hindi Movie.

Kabhi Aisa bhi ho

Haan socha tha maine, kya kabhi aisa bhi hoga
Ki main sochun aur tumhe khabar ho jaye.


Haan socha tha maine, kya kabhi aisa bhi hoga
Ki main tumhe chahun aur tumhari chahat mujhe mil jaye

Socha to tha, jab haqeeqat ke aaine mein nazar aaya to dil ka bhram toot gaya
Haan socha to tha, par kya jo sochun woh mil jaye, yeh zaruri to nahin

Bus is dil ko samjhana thoda mushkil hain
Par haan aaj bhi kehna yahi chahungi, ki humein aapse mohabbat hain, beintaha aur suchhi mohabbat.

Jo na to jhudlai ja sakti hain aur na hi khatm.
Yeh to aisa ehsaas hain jo na jiye jaye aur na hi mara jaye.
Yahi hain hamara Tassavur aur hamari chahat ka asliyat.......

Zameer hamara Aaina hain

Kyun jo pyar karte hain apne zameer se lad nahin pate
Kyun woh humse naraaz ho gaya ho
Usko manane ke dus bahane banate hain hum
Dekho ek suraj jo sari duniya ko apni roshni se ujagar karta hain
agar us mein bhi guroor aa jaye to kya woh kisi ko roshni de payega

Kyun nahin soch pate hum bhi aisa
Kyun nahin apne ko bhulakar sirf apne pyar ko de pate
Kyun har baar hamari apni zarurat ya matlab aage aa jata hain
Gar suraj na hota to chand bhi na hota
To kya kadr reh jati is duniya mein Din aur Raat ki

Din ki apni zarurat hain, lekin Raat ko hona bhi zaruri hain
Waise hi kya hum apne aap ko bhulakar apne pyar ke nahin ho sakte
Kyun sochte hain , ki woh bhi pehal kar sakti/sakta tha na
Kyun?????
Socho socho, aur phir batao. Hum sab is Kyun ka jawab jaante hain
Iska Jawab apne Mann se poocho aur phir jaan paoge kyun Kehte hain
divine to peace is to give, to render without expecting any return out of it from it
the happiness of giving something is far far different than the Guilt of losing someone

Ek insaan jo is duniya mein aaya
Yeh soch kar to nahin aaya tha na Ki uska koi hoga ya nahin
Phir bhi hum umeed karte hain, ki hamara apna koi ho
Jiske saath hum har baat kar sake
Apne dukh mein uske saath apna dukh baant sake
Khushi mein chahe humein koi mile ya nahin
Kyun hum umeed karte hain kisi saath ki jab hum dukhi hote hain
Main jaanti hun kehna asaan hain lekin is suchhai ko maanna aur iske saath jeena utna hi Mushkil

Main to samajh gai is asliyat ko shayad aur bhi samajh paun jab Kuch waqt akele bita paun
Socho, kya hum kuch lekar aaye the , jo khone ka humein darr hain
Jisne humein banaya, wohi hamara sucha saathi hain
socho , har waqt woh tumhara saaya hain.

Kabhi apne Zameer se jhooth nahin bol paoge
Kyunki hamara Zameer hum nahin, woh hain jiski wajah se hum aaj yahan hain
Apna Zameer apna Aaina Hota hain
Jaise Aaina apna Aks dikhata hain
aise hi Hamara Zameer humein apni asli surat se rub-a-roo karwata hain

Raat aur Din ka Fark

Chamakti dhoop tera Intzar kaise kar paungi main?
Jabki main Jaanti hun ki roshni se mera koi nata nahin

Tumhare is dhoke ko kaise seh paungi main
Jabki main Jaanti hun tum to kabhi suchhe the hi nahin

Abhi to din ka ujala guzarne ko hain
Aur mere Armaan abhi se mera saath chodne ko hain

Us par yeh ehsaas ki mera to kabhi koi tha hi nahin
Raat ke gehre andhere mein apne ko kaise samjha paungi main?

Is baat par gaur kar dil mera bechain hain
Ki jahan koi na ho wahan maine kisko apna paya

Jab koi mera tha hi nahin, to kyun main Darti hun kisiko Khone ka soch
Haan, such to hain, yahan koi Kisi ka nahin

Jab zarurat ho to sab aa jate hain
Par shayad Musibat par aapka Haath tham aapka Saya banne wale bus kuch chand chehre

Jo Din ke ujale mein to Kho jaate hain
Lekin Raat ke andhere mein phir se aa jate hain Humsafar Banne ko

Love that is still Young and Charismatic

Aaj humein ek saath kareeb 14 yrs ho gaye
Par kabhi socho to jaise kal ki hi baat hi lagti hain

In 14 saalon mein ek baar bhi aisa nahin ehsaas hua ki jaise pyar purana ho gaya hain
Tum aaj bhi utne hi haseen ho aur utne hi khoobsurat
Tumhari ek jhalak dekhne ke liye aaj bhi mera man utna hi utsuk rehta hain
ghar aane par yahi umeed hoti hain ki pehle meri nazrein tumhe dekhen aur baad mein kisi aur ko
subah ka suraj pehle tumhare chehre se hokar mujh tak aaye
Jisse ki main sabse pehle tumhe dekhun aur baad mein is duniya ko

Har pal tumhara saath har lamha tumhara pyar
Yeh Kabhi ehsaas hi nahin hua ki, aur koi kabhi tha hi nahin hamare paas
Aur aaj bhi jab, un lamho ko yaad karti hun to lagta hain jaise kal ki hi baat hain
Shayad yahi hain Pyar ka ehsaas aur iski suchi ehmiyat
Aaj bhi jab tumhe chooti hun to aisa lagta hain jaise woh pehla ehsaas woh pehli sharam

Pyar ka ehsaas hi aisa zinda hain jo humein ek doosre se itna kareeb rakhta hain
Mujhe tumhara aur tumhe mera intezaar
Dekhi hain tumhari ankhon mein woh chamak jo mujhe dekhte hi aa jaati hain
Aise hi yeh pyar hamesha Jawaan rahe aur barkraar rahe
Chahe kuch bhi ho , yeh rishta utna hi anmol rahe jitna aaj se 14 saal pehle tha

Yaad hain woh pehli mulakaat jab maine tumhe pehli baar dekha tha
Aur tum baar baar mud kar mujhe dekh rahe the
Mano jaise keh rahe ho ki aao mujhe hamesha ke liye apna banalo
Shayad woh ek pal kafi tha hum dono ke liye
Is pyar ki Ehmiyat aur iski asli Keemat jaane ke liye

Aur kya kahun, kehne ko to itna hain ki shayad sari umar hi kum pad jaye
Sirf tumhara pyar hi mujhe is Kabil bana paya hain
Bus itna hi kahungi, ki hamesha mere saath rehna aur hamare is Anmol pyar ke rishte ko
Hamesha Hamesha Jawaan rakhna aur is mein kabhi apne aham ko aane mat dena

Jaante ho na, jahan Aham ho wahan pyar nahin reh sakta aur jahan Pyar ho wahan Aham ke liye koi jagah nahin
Pyar to dena hain na, wohi to hum karte aaye hain en 14 saalon mein
Maine tumhe aur tumne mujhe, sirf aur sirf pyar hi to diya hain
Yahi ek wajah hain, jo ki hum dono ko ek doosre ke itne kareeb rakhe hue hain
Jahan kisi bhi galat fehmi ke liye koi jagah nahin
Koi jitna chahe koshish karle, hum dono ko alag nahin kar sakta

Kaash aisa insaan mil pana utna hi asaan hota
Par kehte hain na, achhi kismat mil pana utna hi mushkil hain jitna ki kisi ko Maut ke muhh se bachake la pana
Par jahan Chaah hoti hain wahin raah bhi hoti hain

Shayad isi liye mujhe tum mil gaye aur zindagi ki sari kami puri ho gai
Ab koi chah nahin , koi mile ya na mile , koi apna ban sake ya na
Bus tum yunhi ek Sache saye ki tarah hamesha mere saath rehna
Main bhi tumse aaj ek wada karti hun, chahe kuch ho jaye
Is suchai ko main aaj swikarti hun, haan main bus tumhari hun, sirf tumhari!!!!!!!!

Maine Mohabbat ki hain

Maine Mohabbat ki Hain

Maine har us insaan se mohabbat ki hain jo meri zindagi ka hissa bana aur mojood rahaKya aapne kisi aise se mohabbat ki hain?

Maine har us ko gale lagaya jisko maine rote hue payaHar kisi ko dilasa diya jisko maine dukh takleef mein payaMujhe sirf tukraar ke aur dhoka mila, woh ek alag baat hainKya aapne kabhi aise ko dilasa diya?

Maine har kisi ko apna banaya jisse bhi main ab tak mili.Mujhe sirf nazaren aur unke matlab mile, woh ek alag baat hainKya aapne kabhi kisi ko jo aapse mila , usse apna banaya?

Maine Har Pal sirf aur sirf Pyar hi chaha aur bantaKya aapne kabhi sirf aur sirf pyar chaha aur banta hain

Jitna chaho pyar do, shayad koi kahin aapke bare mein soch kar ek din aapko bhi pyar karna shuru karde

Aur pyar ki jitni bhi kami hain use puri kar de

Pyar ek aisa ehsaas hain jo shayad ek numb ko bhi jinda karde

Ek tinke mein bhi Jaan dal de

Aur is duniya ki sari burai aur Nafrat ko Khatm kar , pyar mein badalde

Kehte hain , suche dil se chaho to kya nahin ho sakta is duniya mein

Rishte

Kahin to suna tha ki zindagi dene ka naam hain
Bus rishte banao aur unko nibhao jitna nibha sakte ho. Ek sawaal jo baar baar mere zehen mein aata hain.
ki kya dena ko koi ant hain? Kya koi insaan kabhi bhi yeh sochta hain ki jab uski ankhon mein ansun ho, To koi to ho uske paas usko gale lagane ke liye aur Uski ansun poochne ke liye ho?
Kya koi hain jo yeh sochta hain ya sirf sab dena jaante hain
Itne saal ho gaye is duniya ko aur iske logon ko dekhte bhaalte
Ab tak is sawaal ka jawab nahin mila aur jahan tak Mujhe yaad hain
Bohat kum log hain is duniya mein jo sirf dena jaante ho aur kabhi na dekhe ki unko kya mila
Aaj jab kabhi ansun aate hain ankhon mein, apne aas paas koi nahin hota
Phir yahin sochti hun, shayad dena hi sahi hain, jitna sochenge ki kya Paya
sirf dard aur nirasha ke elava aur kuch nahin milega
Insaan to dene se pehle hi umeed karta hain ki use kya Milega
Aisi bheed mein kya koi aisa milega jo humein apne gale lagakar sirf yeh jaan sake ki har baar dene ke badle kuch paana hi maksad nahin hota..............
Rishte, ab tak ke sabse suchhe aur sabse anmol heere.
Kabhi ankhon mein ansun dete hain aur kabhi is duniya mein jeene ka Maksad
Jab tanha rehkar socho to sirf yahi khayal aata hain ki
""""Saathi na karwan hain, yeh tera imtihan hain..
Yun hi chalachal dil ke sahare, karti hain manzil tujhko ishare
dekh kahin koi rok nahin le tujhko pukarke""""
Har pal ka yeh dhoka , ki main tumhare saath hun
Jabki aankh khulne par to apna saya bhi saath chod jata hain
Us par kisi ka har baar yeh kehna ki woh to yahin hain, jabki unki parchai tak bhi saath nahin hoti
Socho, aur batao. ki koi yeh bata sakta hain ki Rishte ki kasoti par har baar utarna kya such mein zaruri hain, jabki woh rishte sirf ankhon mein aansun aur dil mein dard hi dete hain..........
Still trying to get the answer for this from anyone close to me or close to the reality............

Love means Freedom

This quote does not mean that you take no effort if everything is falling apart. You know I don’t think it is a good idea to take any quote or any idea for that matter on face value and taking it at face value or dogmatically, everything can have some good meaning no matter how little.
To sum up it means allow your partner to be free, trust him/her, love him/her unconditionally (that way free), don’t become so possessive that it becomes a liability. You know after a point most people become over-expecting, some even start doubting slightly and want more attention just because they think that he/she is giving more attention to other people and things and that is one reason that can lead to a downslide in relationships. A relationship can only bloom when there is mutual trust and respect for each others individuality. If there is mutual trust then a person would never worry about the things I mentioned in the previous sentence and would avoid insecurity. It has nothing to in my humble opinion with leaving a partner “free” in other meanings.

My question about this quote is really “how much “freedom” does one need before s/he comes to her/his sense just to realize that the other person has already moved on.” They move on not because they don’t love the other person but because time and the discovery of oneself happened to move a little quicker. If you decide to try again later, how will this “seperation” be added into the equation…positive or negative…I guess it really depends on the couple…still confused

What you can do?????

What should you do, when someone is not able to understand you???
What should you do , when someone is not listening to you and always want to overhear your saying?
What can you do when someone is pretending that he is listening however, his actions are irritating you??
What can you expect from someone who breaks his promises everytime and still say that he will fulfill his promise?
What can you dream of apart as the most loveable person of your life is the one who is responsible for most of the pain gifted to you?
Last but the least, What shall you do, when you see that person coming back and forth and still gives you tears and pain, and still says that he loves you the most and with utmost honesty?

So called Love

People say "i love you" to someone, maybe without thinking as to what they are saying and why they are saying these 3 precious words.
I believe, i may be wrong or getting to much involved, no offence though. But still, Few people just dont understand what they try to prove when they say I love you without getting into the depth of the meaning of these words and why ethy do it
More often than not I guess the first time someone murmurs the ‘I love you’ words they are out of infatuation, or with ulterior motives, or as in most cases as a response to someone’s murmurs (whose murmur is attributed to Reason 1 & 2!). Subsequently these murmurs slowly become a ritual, words that must be exchanged! I know this sounds funny, but hey think about it. Do we always know if we really love the person we think we love? Do we always mean it when we say it?
Love makes life more meaningful, lively and most importantly a reason to survive, i know it has been proved the other way for few people. however we cant just be so negative about the fact that everything in this world holds two faces, one is good and the another is bad. What comes whom way depends on their share of destiny and deeds.
Love is something which should happen in everyone's Life with the meaning of positiveness and feeling of livelihood.
Best of luck to all out there who has not get the opportunity of feeling the wonderful pleasure of True Love.

Ek Ulfat

Aaj jo aaye hum yahan to yaki hua ki chehre ki suchai kya hain
Jo kabhi apne na the, unhe hi apna aaina samajh baithe the hum

Zindagi us safar par nikle the jahan kabhi sirf rahe hi hamara intezaar karti thi
Aaj jab wapus gaye to jana ki koi aur bhi tha hamare intezaar mein

Jiska kabhi hum sirf sapno mein zikr karte the aaj unhe apne saamne paaya to jana ki sapno ko haqiqat mein badalte hue dekhne mein kaise ehsaas hota hain
sapne to bus sundar dikhte hain par haqiqat se jo saamna hua to zindagi ka ek naya matlab samajh pai

Kisi ko chahne aur sirf chahne mein jo sukh hain woh shayad usse hamesha apna banane mein bhi nahin. sirf chaho itna ki woh insaan sirf aapka aur sirf aapka hi bankar reh jaye
na use kabhi khone ka darr ho aur na hi usse door jane ka darr.

Ise hi kehte hain shayad deewana pan

Sweet baby this is for you, just for you!!!!!!!