Rishte

Kahin to suna tha ki zindagi dene ka naam hain
Bus rishte banao aur unko nibhao jitna nibha sakte ho. Ek sawaal jo baar baar mere zehen mein aata hain.
ki kya dena ko koi ant hain? Kya koi insaan kabhi bhi yeh sochta hain ki jab uski ankhon mein ansun ho, To koi to ho uske paas usko gale lagane ke liye aur Uski ansun poochne ke liye ho?
Kya koi hain jo yeh sochta hain ya sirf sab dena jaante hain
Itne saal ho gaye is duniya ko aur iske logon ko dekhte bhaalte
Ab tak is sawaal ka jawab nahin mila aur jahan tak Mujhe yaad hain
Bohat kum log hain is duniya mein jo sirf dena jaante ho aur kabhi na dekhe ki unko kya mila
Aaj jab kabhi ansun aate hain ankhon mein, apne aas paas koi nahin hota
Phir yahin sochti hun, shayad dena hi sahi hain, jitna sochenge ki kya Paya
sirf dard aur nirasha ke elava aur kuch nahin milega
Insaan to dene se pehle hi umeed karta hain ki use kya Milega
Aisi bheed mein kya koi aisa milega jo humein apne gale lagakar sirf yeh jaan sake ki har baar dene ke badle kuch paana hi maksad nahin hota..............
Rishte, ab tak ke sabse suchhe aur sabse anmol heere.
Kabhi ankhon mein ansun dete hain aur kabhi is duniya mein jeene ka Maksad
Jab tanha rehkar socho to sirf yahi khayal aata hain ki
""""Saathi na karwan hain, yeh tera imtihan hain..
Yun hi chalachal dil ke sahare, karti hain manzil tujhko ishare
dekh kahin koi rok nahin le tujhko pukarke""""
Har pal ka yeh dhoka , ki main tumhare saath hun
Jabki aankh khulne par to apna saya bhi saath chod jata hain
Us par kisi ka har baar yeh kehna ki woh to yahin hain, jabki unki parchai tak bhi saath nahin hoti
Socho, aur batao. ki koi yeh bata sakta hain ki Rishte ki kasoti par har baar utarna kya such mein zaruri hain, jabki woh rishte sirf ankhon mein aansun aur dil mein dard hi dete hain..........
Still trying to get the answer for this from anyone close to me or close to the reality............

Love means Freedom

This quote does not mean that you take no effort if everything is falling apart. You know I don’t think it is a good idea to take any quote or any idea for that matter on face value and taking it at face value or dogmatically, everything can have some good meaning no matter how little.
To sum up it means allow your partner to be free, trust him/her, love him/her unconditionally (that way free), don’t become so possessive that it becomes a liability. You know after a point most people become over-expecting, some even start doubting slightly and want more attention just because they think that he/she is giving more attention to other people and things and that is one reason that can lead to a downslide in relationships. A relationship can only bloom when there is mutual trust and respect for each others individuality. If there is mutual trust then a person would never worry about the things I mentioned in the previous sentence and would avoid insecurity. It has nothing to in my humble opinion with leaving a partner “free” in other meanings.

My question about this quote is really “how much “freedom” does one need before s/he comes to her/his sense just to realize that the other person has already moved on.” They move on not because they don’t love the other person but because time and the discovery of oneself happened to move a little quicker. If you decide to try again later, how will this “seperation” be added into the equation…positive or negative…I guess it really depends on the couple…still confused

What you can do?????

What should you do, when someone is not able to understand you???
What should you do , when someone is not listening to you and always want to overhear your saying?
What can you do when someone is pretending that he is listening however, his actions are irritating you??
What can you expect from someone who breaks his promises everytime and still say that he will fulfill his promise?
What can you dream of apart as the most loveable person of your life is the one who is responsible for most of the pain gifted to you?
Last but the least, What shall you do, when you see that person coming back and forth and still gives you tears and pain, and still says that he loves you the most and with utmost honesty?

So called Love

People say "i love you" to someone, maybe without thinking as to what they are saying and why they are saying these 3 precious words.
I believe, i may be wrong or getting to much involved, no offence though. But still, Few people just dont understand what they try to prove when they say I love you without getting into the depth of the meaning of these words and why ethy do it
More often than not I guess the first time someone murmurs the ‘I love you’ words they are out of infatuation, or with ulterior motives, or as in most cases as a response to someone’s murmurs (whose murmur is attributed to Reason 1 & 2!). Subsequently these murmurs slowly become a ritual, words that must be exchanged! I know this sounds funny, but hey think about it. Do we always know if we really love the person we think we love? Do we always mean it when we say it?
Love makes life more meaningful, lively and most importantly a reason to survive, i know it has been proved the other way for few people. however we cant just be so negative about the fact that everything in this world holds two faces, one is good and the another is bad. What comes whom way depends on their share of destiny and deeds.
Love is something which should happen in everyone's Life with the meaning of positiveness and feeling of livelihood.
Best of luck to all out there who has not get the opportunity of feeling the wonderful pleasure of True Love.

Ek Ulfat

Aaj jo aaye hum yahan to yaki hua ki chehre ki suchai kya hain
Jo kabhi apne na the, unhe hi apna aaina samajh baithe the hum

Zindagi us safar par nikle the jahan kabhi sirf rahe hi hamara intezaar karti thi
Aaj jab wapus gaye to jana ki koi aur bhi tha hamare intezaar mein

Jiska kabhi hum sirf sapno mein zikr karte the aaj unhe apne saamne paaya to jana ki sapno ko haqiqat mein badalte hue dekhne mein kaise ehsaas hota hain
sapne to bus sundar dikhte hain par haqiqat se jo saamna hua to zindagi ka ek naya matlab samajh pai

Kisi ko chahne aur sirf chahne mein jo sukh hain woh shayad usse hamesha apna banane mein bhi nahin. sirf chaho itna ki woh insaan sirf aapka aur sirf aapka hi bankar reh jaye
na use kabhi khone ka darr ho aur na hi usse door jane ka darr.

Ise hi kehte hain shayad deewana pan

Sweet baby this is for you, just for you!!!!!!!

Kuch Ehsas

Hum phirse aa baithe hain ankhon mein ansun liye.
Kyun kisi se koi umeed hoti hain jab pata hain ki akhir mein siway ansuon ke aur kuch nahin milega
Kyun Kyun main bhool jati hun yeh sab

Aaj Phir se unki yaad aai to jana ki shayad unke saye mein unki yaadon mein hi rehna sabse theek rahega
Kisi se do pal baat kar lo to samajhte hain ki shayad woh jo kehte hain woh hi sahi hain
Insaan doosre insaan ko nahin samajhta aur kehta hain ki Insaan jaanwar se achha hain

Duniya ka dustoor hain jab kisi pe wishwas kiya usne siways ansuon ke aur kuch nahin diya
Aur phir kehte hain ek bar bharosa karke dekho
Kya Bharosa sirf ek shabd hain uske koi maine nahin uska koi matlab nahin
Uski koi ehmiyat nahin

Chal phir se wapus chale apni duniya jahan kisi ke kuch karne se ankhein namm to nahin hoti
Chal phir chale apni duniya jahan sirf pyar aur bharosa hain aur koi umeedein nahin kisi se bhi
Chal Chal..........................

Ajeeb duniya ke Ajeeb Rishte

Pata nahin kyun duniya mein yeh Rishte hote hain jab woh kisi ko Samajh nahin paate
Jinke naam apna sara Jeevan kar diya ho aur phir bhi unka Saath na mile to socho kaisa lage
Main kuch Movies dekh rahi thi peechle dino "Beethowen", "Air Bud","Air Buddies","Family Matters". Oh god Kya understanding hain en sunder sunder cheezo ki jinhe Khuda ne itne Pyar se banaya.
Insaan se zyada Wafadaar aur insaan se zyada Samajhdar
Na kisi ko dokha dete hain aur na hi koi Umeed.
Bus Ankhein thi jo Nam hone se ruk nahin Pa rahi thi
Kitna Sunder Tareeka, ek doosre se baat karne ka, ek doosre par Pyar Jatane Ka
Bus main to Dang hi reh gai, such Mano to Jitni upset thi
Sab kuch khatam ho gaya aur chehre par sirf Hasi hi reh gai thi
Kisi bhi Language wale ke paas yeh chale jaye unki bhasha khud ba khud hi seekh jaate hain
Na koi Bhasha Ka Problem aur na hi kisi Rishte ke tootne Ki Chinta
Bus apne mein hi gum rehte hain yeh pyare pyare Jeev khuda ke Banaye hue
Aur yahan, jinpar sabse zyada pyar lutao, woh hi ek din sara Pyar chakna Choor kar dete hain
Ek baar bhi nahin sochte ki doosre par kya beetegi, shayad yahi fark hain Enmein aur hum mein
Aur Kya Kahun, bus itna ki jitna chahun is Duniya ya zindagi se door jane ki
Utna hi Yeh apne Paas Kheech Leti hain, chah kar bhi kyun isse apne aap ko juda nahin kar pati
Kyun
Kyun
Par jaisa bhi, En Nonu's Ka Saath hain to bus chalta hi rahega yeh Anokha Safar..........